The essence of these tools lay dormant in your genome as a man. When you put a group of committed men together with trained facilitation, it is as if some part of you remembers how to be that man you dreamt of being. In a group of men being men, a man starts to wake up what was not allowed to develop.
“I have true brothers that I never had before in my life. Brothers that challenge me from a place of love. I have gone places I only dreamed of and even then never knew how to actually get there.”
A life not lived
What in your life have you not fully lived? Do you have the relationship you want with your partner?
Do you have a partner, assuming that is what you want? Is your career giving back as much as you give it?
Do you have a circle of men that have your back? In you is great potential. How much of it are you living?
Do you give yourself excuses to why you aren’t living that life you dream of having?
Do you have the support every man needs to achieve those dreams? Are you alone in your quest to be that man?
Or are you solely relying on your partner to be that support?
Are you willing to settle being like you’ve been, like all other men? Are you willing to struggle alone to survive as a man?
A New Focus
Rediscover your purpose and passion
A new set of genuine friends—a new brotherhood
Increase your masculine emotional mastery
Life can become a team sport. You can have your work as a man by practicing your game with other men. Yes, it can be a workout, and it can be fun.
You know it is a lot more likely you will get up and do it when you are doing it with others. When you have your commitment to them and they are watching your back… and kicking you in the ass when you don’t live up to YOUR standards—you get moving.
What happens if you don’t step up? Who loses?
You risk living a life that might be what someone else wanted for you. You risk coasting through life taking what is given to you. You risk having your biggest success in life being surviving.
Who else loses? What does your partner get? Or that future partner get? Who do your kids get? What kind of foundation are you building for them?
What’s your contribution to the planet?
What is bigger – the fear of failure or your pain of a life not lived?
A New Model
Unlike other workshops that promise to train men to become “sensitive,” the men of F2W promise to put you onto the path that will allow you to become the man you’ve envisioned.
The type of sharing experienced in thef2w Experience between men creates authentic change. The facilitators quickly ascertain each man’s needs, and they ensure they’re consistently addressed. No man is left behind. Each man has an equal voice. There are no traditional leaders in our retreats. Even the facilitators are all in.
The f2w Experience Men’s Group is a retreat that isn’t like the rest. It’s about the experience of being that man you dreamt of being. For 2Days YOU will deconstruct then rebuild your life as a man.
We will take the science of being a man and help you craft it into the art of being YOUR man.
The f2w Experience isn’t some New Age workshop about learning the latest affirmations. It’s about getting real – it’s about experiencing the power of just being a man.
For 48 hours distractions, excuses, and restrictions are removed. That alone makes showing up powerfully easy. Once you do it with the men of your group… doing in your life gets MUCH easier.
You have NEVER experienced the support, certainly from men that you will experience for these two days. It’s been so long since we have had that support we forgot what it can do for us.
Throughout the weekend you are encouraged to ask questions and openly communicate. The more you show up, the more you get. We want you to get more than you can image getting.
All types of men enjoy the weekend
Shy men quickly become engaged, and a lifetime of self-limiting behavior evaporates once the safety and confidentiality of the retreat participants is assured.
Angry men discover how to transform the limiting behavior that makes them too risky for anyone to trust.
All that is required is the desire for change. We will provide the tools for that change, and each man becomes a guide for other men.
Men need men
Sitting together and talking about issues with other men is more than hanging out, it’s focused intention and purpose. Absent the distractions of everyday life, men experience a kind of camaraderie they want it in their lives permanently. Working with his new band of brothers allows each man to let go of all the ways he protects, performs and projects.
Each man’s partner, family and career take on a new perspective, based on confidence and a newly discovered competence. Maybe that’s because he’s getting renewed or maybe it’s the new found joy he feels, knowing that more is readily available.
We got into this because we wanted a new future. Our success, relationships or passion were stalled. We all had achieved what we were supposed to achieve as men, but we knew there had to be more to life. Together in our groups we created a new future for ourselves.
The f2w Experience Men’s Groups developed from years of study and practice honing what makes a group powerful and determining the most effective way to free a man.
Thousands of hours of collective experience show up to form the basis of Free to Win (F2W) team skill set. This ability to immediately create a safe space has men going deep into parts they never felt or expressed – as if they were playing an amazing game of basketball with their buddies.
Owen Marcus – founder of F2W
35 years ago I started my journey to be free. Once I began to be free I wanted to win, so I did post graduate training in any leading edge discipline I could find that would have me win or help someone else win. I was able to study with men and women who literally wrote the books in several arenas. My fascination with finding quick and sustainable ways to win had me teaching employees, colleagues, corporations and the public.
Fifteen years ago I realized I was missing the masculine component, so I dove into all I could discover about being a man. Quickly I realized I had a lot to learn, so I went for it. In part to reinforce my learning I began men’s groups. With these groups I grasped aspects of being a man that were never taught, I quickly started writing about and teaching what I learned.
All this lead to writing the book, Grow Up: A Man’s Guide to Masculine Emotional Intelligence, a blog, presentations at conferences, and a new passion – this business. After working with thousands of clients, students or group members I realized that with the right tools, virtually any one can be free to win.
Working with Owen, and I don’t mean to be overly dramatic may have saved my life. And if not physically, certainly emotionally and spiritually.
I am still faced with a lot of financial pressure. And in spite of that I am happier and am enjoying deeper more meaningful relationships in my life. I have been married for 25 years and there were times I thought there was no way this relationship would survive. Not only has it survived it’s the best it has ever been.
Men may think that doing one of our weekends is for men who are struggling. Sure we get men who are in a significant transition. Yet most of our participants are men who have lives that are working.
As men we see or feel what is missing when we achieve what we wanted. There is always more. Men are now discovering the new more is not material, it is emotional and social. We want deeper and more satisfying relationships. We want to contribute more than giving our money.
As men we want who we are and what we are doing to impact others. Making a difference in another’s life is easy when you are free from the old binds of what you were taught to be. Winning becomes supporting others with whom you are being. A weekend with similar men can launch you on a path of this new success.
Within each of us is the primordial need to be in a tribe. The retreat is every man’s opportunity to feel the joy from being supported by other men, and the deep belly laughs that can only be shared by men who know and trust each other.
We will also be there for you after the retreat. Beyond beginning your own Hero’s Journey we are available to train and support you in creating or participating in your own men’s micro-community, your own men’s group.
Note: we will speak to every participant before the retreat. If either you or we feel it’s not the best investment you could make, we will suggest another option for you.
Masculine Emotional Intelligence™
– How men’s emotions can be different then women’s
– What limits you is not you, it’s the old paradigm
Not bad or broken
– You were never taught to be that man you dreamed of being
Zero to Hero
– From a life that’s not yours to being your own hero
Free to Win
– Free of what restricts you, you can be your own man
Micros – the new men’s group
– Connecting to the primordial nature of micro-communities
Experience the Brotherhood every man needs
– Going beyond doing it alone to having men watch your back
Sounds good, but…
Hey, we all are men. We know that as men our tendency is to invest in others before ourselves. One thing our partners often do is to make sure we get our physicals and see the dentist. Many men come to the f2w Experiences because their partner said, “You need to it.”
As smart as we are as men, we often hesitate to take action to move our own life forward in a meaningful way. We will work our asses off to pay for braces for our kids or save for their college. But we procrastinate when it comes to investing in ourselves.
We regularly get men wishing they did one these trainings earlier in their lives, avoiding a failed marriage or a bad career choice. Loss and its grief is bad. Regret from missed opportunity is worse.
If you see the possibility that a two day investment will work – go for it. It should feel scary. Changing your life is always scary. Showing up to a strange place to spend two days with men you don’t know takes courage.
Every man shows up scared. It’s just that their desire for something more didn’t stop them. That is courage – showing up for something without being in control of it.
Details of the f2w Experience Men’s Group
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Develop Your Masculine Vulnerability
Emotional awareness and emotional integrity are key components in every healthy relationship. Fear of vulnerability and lack of trust can prevent men from enjoying the deep emotional connections that are an integral part of every relationship.
Make a difference in other men’s lives
Learn what was never taught
Receive deep support
Be seen for who you are
Leave renewed and recommitted
Discover how empowering it is to share your true self with other men and be supported
Who do you call at 2AM when all hell breaks lose?
When you were a boy, you had best friends. Who are you best friends now? They’re more important now than ever because your challenges as a man can easily overwhelm you. You need and deserve authentic friendships.
The f2w Experience Men’s Group is guided by Owen Marcus and a select group of the senior men of Sandpoint Men’s Group (SMG). These are the same man along with the entire group who are the focus of the first documentary on a men’s group, About Men to be released in the spring of 2014.
Register by clicking the above button or contacting Owen at 208.265.8440 or owen [at] owenmarcus [dot] com.
When you sit with other men who are also being themselves old masks dissolve away. Authenticity naturally shows up, breeding more trust and deep change.
Your ancestral part which remembers what it was like to have a tribe of men comes out. You relax knowing that all the other men are just men. Being vulnerable goes from, “I will never” to “I’m in” – risk taking is fun with a group of men you trust.
You can remember the times you trusted men and how that caused you to stretch. For two days the group will keep building on that trust taking you deeper into releasing what never worked for you. Your group will take you into connecting up with that deep, dormant part that is the seed for a new outrageous future.
Two Day Experience – June 13 & 14, 2015, Sandpoint, ID
Leave with a new future
When you show up as the previous men of our f2w Experience Groups showed up – we can guarantee that your future will be different. It’s not rocket science. It’s being a man.
Men will invest in new sporting equipment, tools or some hobby endeavor… this time, invest in a new future that will reap the returns of a new life.
You could leave with a life that is connected to something more than surviving. You could leave with a deep reconnection to lost places within you. It’s easy to move forward in life when you have your own back and feel inspired.
Your Future Needs You – Give It Two Days
The Healing Journey that Owen Marcus facilitated for me was one of the most transformative experiences of my life. In this safe space I was able to be vulnerable and emotional, and I realized some of the things that have been holding me back, including trauma I can trace back to childhood. I now know that anger, fear and resentment were suppressed and held in my subconscious mind and have been affecting everything I have done in my adult life.
Owen’s gift is his ability to take a man deep. He took me to a place where I externally expressed what had been up to that point an inward struggle. I also witnessed Owen hold space for others who similarly emerged as new men. Owen is a phenomenally talented leader of men and I would recommend him to all the men in my life.
P.S. You, your partner and family as well as your future waits for you to develop your future. Let us help you craft that new future.
P.P.S. Do what others have done, bring your friend, son, brother, father… a man that you want to connect deep with.