Ask your friends. Honestly ask them how does a man become a man that other men respect, and most importantly that he respects? Ask those never asked questions about being a real man.
Their answers will show you they know no more than you. You all are that ship without a rudder drifting where ever the current takes you.
You’re not to be blamed. No one taught you the ins and outs of succeeding as a man. They couldn’t — they didn’t know, no one taught them.
An out of the box solution
I started behind the masculine curve with my Asperger’s Syndrome and dyslexia. I couldn’t even come close to faking it as a man. Every attempt to man up in the traditional way failed. My lines to women were stuttering pleas trying to be beautiful poetry. As far as sports, my dyspraxia (dyslexia of the body) had me missing more balls with my tennis racket than I made contact with. If nothing else, I was great entertainment for my friends.
Our masculine box was a coffin for me. I had to find another way that worked. I pledged to myself, that I would get on the other side of it no matter what it took. Fumbling with my desperate need to find a way, and an inner instinct I didn’t yet know was trustworthy, I started on my own course. I did therapies no one heard of, I studied disciplines that weren’t traditional, and finally — I put myself in situations where I was forced to find a new way to succeed.
Three decades later I deconstructed what it was to be a man. Beyond any intellectual study in hindsight I realized that I was on my own Hero’s Journey. Yes, I became a geek about all the hidden workings of being a man. But at the same time, my hunger to know led me down paths that were instinctual, and sensory (or physical), rarely was my intellect the ally I’d expected it to be. For over thirty years I was my beta tester discarding what didn’t work and strengthening what did.
The short course
Seeing what really worked I came up with a simple formula. It’s not some academic theory, it’s a practical field-tested system, that I experimented with —first on myself. It has now impacted the lives of hundreds of men over many years I have worked as I refined it.
This book in some ways condenses my larger book Grow Up: A Man’s Guide to Masculine Emotional Intelligence and is a how to manual to quickly apply the principles and practices of Grow Up. When you follow the simple DROPP formula, you will start winning. Not just in those ways you might compete, such at work, but also with your partner.
For $27 you have a way to cheat. Don’t struggle like everyone else; use this cheat sheet to winning as a man.
If after a month of applying what you learned and you aren't seeing the results you want we will refund you your money. How's that?
…we are finalizing the formatting of the book, we expect to have it available soon. Stay tune:)